
Photo was taken the morning of 'jammie day' at 'school' as his class was having their Christmas party in their jammies.
Mike and I got to take Ralph to his first Husker basketball game at the end of November. He had a great time clapping (maybe not always for the correct team) and enjoyed everything that came along with the game - the band, the food, the crowd.
Ralph has had some success with going to bed by himself in the last month. The bedtime routine involves brushing choppers, prayers, reading in bed for 20-30 minutes with mommy or daddy, and then lights out - he'll turn his little light off and turn his music on. I will then proceed to pat his back for 30 seconds and then sit by his door for 3-5 minutes, baby steps. I have also resorted to bribery. I have tried it before but never really had much luck. I'm still not sure if I have had any luck but he remembered the next morning that he was promised M&Ms if he stayed in bed all by himself. He continues to ask for M&Ms most mornings.
Ralph discovered some mesh bags in our closest (the kind of bags one would wash dedicates in). One of the books we read has a page that illustrates bees and beekeepers so he determined the mesh bags were our netting hats and we wear them nightly when we read that page - most times we don't even read the whole book, just that page. The bags have transformed from netting hats to hard hards and now, snowy hats - depending on what book we are reading. What an imagination.
For a few weeks now, Ralph has decided to wear his briefs backwards. He thinks its funny and we don't care to correct him since he is dressing himself and its one less thing we have to worry about. He seems to think he has the final decision on what he gets to wear. We used to be able to pick out his outfit and he'd wear it, now he puts up a fight until he gets to choose what he prefers - unfortunately many of the shirts he has picked lately are short sleeve.
A week ago Sunday, Ralph decided to put a pea in each nose hole. He had a cold and someone suggested maybe he was trying to stop his nose from running. I can't say for sure what he was thinking. He's had peas plenty of times before and even had them twice the week before as he enjoys them frozen and its something quick to put on his dinner plate. Luckily they were easily removed with tweezers.
Ralph enjoys going to church. We sit pretty near the front and whenever he has the chance Ralph will stand in the aisle near our row and watch Father. He also likes the part where he gets to give Father money (and a high five). It seems like after most masses we get at least one compliment on how well behaved he was. I think we just happen to be lucky.